Perfect Valentine's Day Gift Ideas for Women

Choose the Best Valentine's Day Presents for Spouses and Girlfriends

Jan 25, 2010
Christine Harmon

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Every February, men across the nation are stumped. What are the expectations on Valentine's Day? Is she expecting jewelery? Is sending a bouquet of flowers cliche?

Valentine's Day is often referred to as a day for lovers, but many men consider it a woman's holiday. As a result, in early February, panic begins to set in. No man wants to ruin a Valentine's Day celebration for his girlfriend or spouse. But how does he find out what she wants and what she expects?

A Woman's Personality Should Inspire Valentine's Day Ideas

A woman's personality can provide guidance when trying to determine what type of gift or celebration is best. Is she sentimental? If she collects photographs, cherishes keepsakes from dates, and has a song that she feels commemorates the love in her relationship, she will be looking for a romantic Valentine's Day experience. Sending her flowers will melt her heart. Taking her out for a special dinner will please her. Snuggling by the fire with a bottle of wine and some chocolate will take her breath away. A locket with a meaningful quote or date inscribed in it will make her weep.

If she is active and adventurous, however, a different approach may be in order. A woman who loves to spend weekends hiking trails, skiing, and lifting weights may be looking for something a bit less traditional. A date that begins at a rock climbing gym or at a dance studio to learn the Tango may be in order. Don't deprive her of a romantic meal, but consider her tastes. If she is a health nut, she may prefer a restaurant with lighter fare, and may balk at a box of chocolates.

Do Women Want Valentine's Day Presents?

Men want to know: do women expect Valentine's Day gifts? Look at past holidays to answer this question. Some women focus more on gifts than others. If she tends to purchase lots of gifts for friends, family, and the men in her life, she may well expect one. If she went crazy buying gifts over the holidays, the sentiment of a gift may be important to her.

However, if she tends to focus more on experiences, she may be more impressed by a carefully planned evening than a bauble in a box. In that case, focus on creating a meaningful and creative Valentine's Day, not searching for a gift.

Romantic Valentine's Day Gifts Reflect Her Likes and Dislikes

Romantic Valentine's Day gifts demonstrate thought, care, and love. They are gifts that reflect an understanding of the woman and the love being celebrated. Consider a woman's preferences. Think about past experiences and gift giving occasions. Tune into her desires, and listen to see if she is dropping hints about her expectations. After doing this homework, plan something special, make a purchase if appropriate, and enjoy.